So the entire dating game has changed… People, well, they just aren’t as serious as they used to be about the whole relationship thing. Relationships are often taken for granted and it is just a means to get something in return, in the name of love…
But in the monopoly game of dating, there still are men and women (or now more commonly referred to as guys and girls), who actually still appreciate being in a relationship and nurturing it.
So guys, this article was put together specially for you. How would you know if a women (girl) really likes you for you?
Well to be honest, it isn’t really easy to tell.
Sure there are clear signs to show if she genuinely cares. Like being concerned for your wellbeing, your health, encouraging you to save your extra cash, preparing for your future… etc etc
But the thing is, WE, women are the ones who notice these things. Men, on the other hand, don’t necessarily notice these things when dating a woman. I don’t mean to sound like you guys are just appearance orientated, but let’s be honest here. The first or main things that you guys notice in a woman is her appearance, her smile, the size of her boobs, and her waist line… Among others. And while that is considered normal and acceptable, there are also other things to look for when trying to understand if she really likes you or not.
Some guys (many whom I know), assume that a woman will like him, just because she flicked her hair in a certain way, and blushed, or because she smiled at him. Heck anyone can smile at you. But it takes pure genuine care to show that you actually do love or have affection for someone. And is it that care that you need to look for, when trying to figure out if she does like you, or not.
Three signs to determine if she really likes you
- When on a date and you are not feeling well:
Does she get angry that the night didn’t go as planned?
Does she have sympathy for your aching body and suggests staying home instead?
- When you get paid:
Does she jump at the opportunity to go shopping for the most expensive items that she could do without?
Does she choose to spend a day out with you, doing fun stuff that you both enjoy and then also encourage you to save up your cash?
- When you are chatting with your family:
Does she get annoyed that you are chatting with other women (even if they are family members)?
Or does she encourage you to nurture your relations with family?
These three questions may seem random and I agree that these alone cannot actually determine whether or not a women does like you. But it will give you a clearer indication of the type of women she is and if she has the capability to care for you (and your family).
You see, as I mentioned before, many guys are more concerned with appearance and physically aspects of a woman and do not notice these tiny details. So the relationship can start of by trying to meet her needs just because you want to see that pretty smile on her face. But if her demands are unrealistic or just down right stupid, then the relationship is bound to eventually make you feel suffocated and annoyed.
Another thing which I find important to mention is that there are also a lot of guys who do ‘want’ these type of so called demanding women and don’t really find the down to earth, caring type of women appealing. So if a woman genuinely cares for you, encourages you to save up, and supports your family relations, you might also find that boring and prefer a woman who just wants to have a good time.
There isn’t anything wrong with that. That would just mean that your preferences are different, like the type of women who just prefer pretty boys who aren’t really serious about relationships… It is their preference too.
But what is important to note, is that whatever preference you have, you should be prepared for the consequences that come with it. If you find a caring woman boring, and find an uncaring one better, that also comes with consequences of having a woman who may eventually hurt your feelings, use your cash until you are high and dry and disrespect all the women in your life. (The same goes for a woman who chooses a man who doesn’t really care for her.
Anyway, any person who genuinely cares for you, will ultimately want the best for you. So next time you are on a promising date, do have a look at the 3 questions I mentioned earlier to help determine if she really is into you or not.